Wednesday, October 28, 2009

Lady Gaga "Eh, Eh (Nothing Else I Can Say)" lyrics


Cherry cherry
boom boom
GaGa

Boy, we've had a real' good time
And I wish you the best on your way
Eh eh
I didn't mean to hurt you
I never thought we'd fall out of place
Eh eh, hey ey

I have something that I love long
But my friends keeping telling me that something's wrong
Then I met someone

And babe, there's nothing else I can say
Eh eh, eh eh
There's nothing else I can say
Eh eh, eh eh
I wish you'd never looked at me that way
Eh eh, eh eh
There's nothing else I can say
Eh eh, eh eh

Not that I don't care about you
Just that things got so complicated
Eh eh
I met somebody cute and finally got each other
And that's funny
Eh eh, hey ey

I have something that I love long
But my friends keeping telling me that something's wrong
Then I met someone

And babe, there's nothing else I can say
Eh eh, eh eh
There's nothing else I can say
Eh eh, eh eh
I wish you'd never looked at me that way
Eh eh, eh eh
There's nothing else I can say
Eh eh, eh eh

(Eh eh, eh eh, eh eh...)

I have something that I love long long
But my friends keeping telling me that something's wrong
Then I met someone

And babe, there's nothing else I can say
Eh eh, eh eh
Eh eh, eh eh
There's nothing else I can say
Eh eh, eh eh
I wish you'd never looked at me that way
Eh eh, eh eh

There's nothing else I can say
Eh eh, eh eh
I wish you'd never looked at me that way
Eh eh, eh eh
There's nothing else I can say
Eh eh, eh eh

(Cherry cherry, boom boom)

Eh eh, hey ey
Oh yeah

All I can say is eh eh

Monday, October 26, 2009

Weekend: Pengat Jagung, Doria drop by, uncle visit and weird Massage

huhu what a tiring weekend, i was cooking Mutton Curry by the time i notice there is some maize in the fridge. hurm and remember it almost a week ago when i bought. initially i just want to BBQ it but then since there is some left over coconut milk i decide to do pengat instead and by that time Doria Arrive.

so i do some preparationand after those scraping and collecting the milk

put it in a bowl with some sugar, coconut milk and daun pandan
Keep stirring until it become creamy
and wallah serve it chill or hot.... but i prefer it chilledafter lunch Doria was drag for family outing/shopping in carrefour and we had fun playing with the free wifi kiosk
Trying on the keyboardAnd taking picture JAKUN style :P

but to my stupidity i cant think of activity for her :) SORRY DORIA
sigh....that is for saturday and
last night after those tired travelling to Kahang for
a friend wedding and arrive home somewhere around 3pm and drench in rain my uncle arrive home
(My Dad elder brother and younger brother)
they arrive after performing tahlil at my aunt house






Uncle, Aunty, Ibu and Cousin
Owh this is my dad younger brother... sporting i must say but i really had a hard time to talk to him... maybe am not used to meet him... but i know he such a sporting uncle
This is my dad elder brother... and the one i always stop by and visit last time when he still stay in JBthe closest person resemble to my dad :D
owh my brother had this weird massage which i had so much fun poking him and hug him.
huhu and i spoiled alot of food in Cafe world... Rugi...rugi...rugi :(

Friday, October 23, 2009

Nancy Sinatra - Bang, Bang (My Baby Shot Me Down)



Cher sings it in 66 and at the same year Nancy do a cover version for this son and i prefer this version............

I was five and he was six
We rode on horses made of sticks
He wore black and I wore white
He would always win the fight

Bang bang, he shot me down
Bang bang, I hit the ground
Bang bang, that awful sound
Bang bang, my baby shot me down.

Seasons came and changed the time
When I grew up, I called him mine
He would always laugh and say
"Remember when we used to play?"

Bang bang, I shot you down
Bang bang, you hit the ground
Bang bang, that awful sound
Bang bang, I used to shoot you down.

Music played, and people sang
Just for me, the church bells rang.

Now he's gone, I don't know why
And till this day, sometimes I cry
He didn't even say goodbye
He didn't take the time to lie.

Bang bang, he shot me down
Bang bang, I hit the ground
Bang bang, that awful sound
Bang bang, my baby shot me down...
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Cher Version


Thursday, October 15, 2009

Bertuah punya kucing

Sigh.... How to stop your cat from drinkin from fishbowl.... eiiii Naughty cat.......

caugh redhanded...

Hi my name is KON you may call me TOT.... Basically i love to drink from my owners fishbowl..... Play the vids haha :P

Wednesday, October 14, 2009

My Brunch Selection

Since today i didn't cook for my lunch box so terpaksa lunch out today... but its okay. so what is my brunch menu if i did prepare

1. Egg and Chicken Sandwich

Basically you need egglah... boiled egg.....

left over chicken from dinner or steam any part of chicken with black paper and salt or if malas just cook it with water, black paper and salt.... rip it, de bone it and cut it into small bite.
use the egg slicer to slice the egg nicely....
and dice the tomato... put everything in a bowl + mayonnaise. combine everything and wallah your sandwich is ready... and yes spread it to bread of your choices.... add lettuce and green salad in between and i promise you, you will be much more energetic after the meal



2. Sashukar/Shashukar/Shakshouka/Chakchouka
(One of well know dish from Malaysian Arabic community)

Disclaimer: Thanks to Atikah for the recipe but i guess i change how i do it... but the ingredient remain the same lah... punya malas wanna check FB tulah Arab mudah lupa sorang nih!


you need this for shasukar.... well depends on how you like it to be but more or less for me Mediterranean dish taste almost similar. (if i was not mistaken only malaysian added the minced beef....)
1. chop Coriander, Asian celery
2. dice the tomato
3. a small can or tomato puree
4. red and green chili pepper

5. Dice Yellow onion
6. minced beef
7. Malaysian soup mix powder
8. minced garlic



I start off with Frying the minced beef with minced garlic


after a while i stir in the soup powder, dice onion, coriander and celery until soften.
pour in canned tomato puree. and taste it. balance it to your liking and at the end i stir in the dice tomato (i prefer the tomato to be a little bit raw)


Smear it in the baking dish and crack up the egg.... i make a hole to fix the egg but normally you just crack it on top of the prepared dish. before you start baking sprinkle some red and green pepper + coriander and celery leaf. bake it.

dig in with white bread... haha best i tell you..... tukar sikit make it lasagna......





THE END PRODUCT

Tuesday, October 13, 2009

Tell All : Sexual Harassment

Source & copy from: http://www.awam.org.my/sexualh.html

What is sexual harassment?

Sexual harassment is one of the most common forms of Violence Against Women. Sexual harassment is defined as receiving any unwanted conduct of a sexual nature including sexual comments, fondling, lewd gestures, jokes, emails, smses, pornographic pictures, coercion and more.

Women are sexually harassed habitually in public and especially at the workplace. In the workplace, sexual harassment is seldom recognized or linked to the broader issue of Violence against Women and discrimination.

Fast facts :
  • A 2002 study conducted by AWAM and Women’s Development Collective (WDC) found that 35% of respondents in Malaysia had experienced one or more forms of sexual harassment.
  • Sexual harassment consists of a wide range of behaviors and actions, most common of these are verbal forms of harassment such as jokes, obscene language and suggestive remarks. Many consider these ‘harmless’ and victims are often accused of over-reacting.
  • Studies show that survivors of sexual harassment are more likely to be in the lower rungs of the company i.e. in subordinate positions.
  • Studies show that survivors are mostly likely to not take any action due to fear of reprisal.
  • There is currently no Malaysian law criminalizing sexual harassment. There is only a Code of Practice on the Prevention and Eradication of Sexual Harassment in the Workplace, launched in 1999 by the Ministry of Human Resources.
  • Legal action can be taken under other provisions in the Penal Code, Employment Act 1955, and the Industrial Relations Act 1967.
  • Sexual harassment can be very traumatizing for women resulting in emotional stress, low productivity and damaged self-esteem.
What to do if you have been or are being sexually harassed?

  • Tell the harasser that you don’t like his actions and that you want him to stop.
  • If the harassment continues, tell your Human Resources department or your union representative.
  • Keep all evidence of the harassment for e.g. emails, smses etc.
  • Keep a written account of the harassment including date, time, the harasser’s name and how the incident(s) happened.
  • If no action is taken or there is no one you can report this to within your organisation or company, you may lodge a report with the Labour Department or the police.
  • Tell a trusted colleague who can give you emotional support.
  • Call us or a women’s NGO for help and guidance.
Sexual Harassment campaigns:

Together with the Joint Action Group for Gender Equality (JAG) AWAM campaigns for the enactment of a Sexual Harassment Act.

We were only one of two NGOs on the government’s Technical Working Committee that produced the Code of Practice on the Prevention and Eradication of Sexual Harassment in the in the Workplace that was introduced in 1999. The Code has been an important addition to anti-sexual harassment efforts in this country but is insufficient particularly since it is not compulsory for private sector entities to implement it.

In 2001, AWAM supported a petition drive coordinated by the Women’s Centre for Change which received 12,000 signatures – including from more then 60 organisations – backing this legislation. Lobbying work for the enactment of the Sexual Harassment Act is still in progress as we seek for adequate, timely and effective redress mechanisms for victims, and for the promotion of a healthy and respectful working environment.

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TELENITA Helpline : 03-78770224 | Office Phone : 03-78774221 | Email : awam@awam.org.my
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Sometimes "no" means "try a little harder...."

Source: http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-scientific-fundamentalist/200904/men-sexually-harass-women-because-they-are-not-sexist-i

One of the unfortunate consequences of the ever-growing number of women joining the labor force and working side by side with men is the increasing number of sexual harassment cases, particularly in the United States. Why is this? Is sexual harassment a necessary and inevitable consequence of the sexual integration of the workplace? What is sexual harassment, anyway, and how can evolutionary psychology explain it?

The scholar who pioneered the study of sexual harassment is Kingsley R. Browne of the Wayne State University Law School, whom we’ve encountered before. Browne identifies two types of sexual harassment cases: the quid pro quo cases (“You must sleep with me if you want to keep your job or be promoted”) and the “hostile environment” cases (where the workplace is deemed too sexualized for workers to feel safe and comfortable). While feminists and social scientists tend to explain sexual harassment in terms of “patriarchy” and other nefarious ideologies, Browne locates the ultimate cause of both types of sexual harassment in the sex differences in evolved psychological mechanisms and mating strategies, thereby “seeking roots in biology rather than ideology.”

Studies unequivocally demonstrate that men are far more interested in short-term casual sex than women. For example, in a classic study, 75% of undergraduate men approached by an attractive female stranger agree to have sex with her; most of the remaining 25% excuse themselves on the ground that they are already in long-term relationships and their girlfriends might find out about their affair. In contrast, absolutely none of the women approached by an attractive male stranger agree to have sex with him. Many men who would not go on a date with the stranger nonetheless agree to have sex with her. In another study, men on average desire nearly twenty sex partners in their lifetimes; women desire less than five. Men on average seriously consider having sex with someone after only one week of acquaintance; women’s average is six months.

The quid pro quo and similar types of harassment are manifestation of men’s greater desire for short-term casual sex than women’s, and their willingness to use any available means to achieve their goal. While feminists often claim that sexual harassment is “not about sex but about power,” Browne astutely points out that it is about both; it is about men using power to get sex. “To say that it is only about power makes no more sense than saying that bank robbery is only about guns, not about money.”

The sex differences in the desire for short-term casual sex are exacerbated by another sex difference in evolved psychological mechanisms: a woman’s desire to understate her sexual desire in a particular man and to engage in what is known as “token resistance.” In one study, nearly 40% of undergraduate women admitted to saying no to sexual advances from a man even though they actually wanted to have sex with him. More than a third of these cases where the women initially said no eventually resulted in consensual sex. As the late great behavior geneticist Linda Mealy, whom we’ve also encountered before, eloquently puts it: “That females are selected to be coy will mean that sometimes saying ‘no’ really does mean ‘try a little harder.’” Of course, women sometimes do mean no when they say no, but this isn’t always the case.So the quid pro quo type of sexual harassment can be explained by the sex differences in the interest in short-term mating, and men’s willingness to use anything at their disposal to obtain it

What do you think?

Tuesday, October 06, 2009

Terasa Hati


being caught in too emotional state these days...tau kenapa... how it occurred the best word describe "no one to be trusted" ..... said it and can't be retract.... the worst part is when we happy for someone else but they just not in the same phase as us.....

Well someone always tell me that we are jive together but the fact is 'we didn't belong with each other'.... happy together but not own each other... so far indeed the only person who lifted me up these days....


am now counting days.... to do more sacrifices... giving my heart out with a bunch of hope for me and my mum.... it's to late to back up.... i am getting tired of pretenders...... friends... families ... lovers.... and some how i still running but on pretty low battery here.....

saw a friend.... who is not even suitable to claim how bad life is when i am on that spot further down below... keep claiming the world is unfair... then what about me?

i never said i didn't pretend... actually am getting tired of pretending... am the man around the house am the person to lean on .. i will not cry and always smile until my stupid aunt think i worst less child.... so i need to meraung if i feel sad? i don't think so...... i promise my self not to tell directly to anyone anymore... just blog it away .... as i complain to TM i better paint the canvas rather that talking to anyone of them...

aku Redha......

sebab aku yg jalani hidup mengikut ketentuan :)

p.s remind me of a Korean movie Miracle Of Giving Fool

Monday, October 05, 2009

Long Day Journey with CSI?

Seriously i am so piss with Human with hundred bunch ill intentions in their heart. After my dad pass away a lot of things happen.... and yes what a weekend. how should i start the story telling... am still tired of yesterday....

went out with mum and comeback with a cloud of thick smoke fog....

we thought the building is on fire
the neighbour call the fire department (Thanks for that)

Me and my mum arrive at the scene ... and its a false alarm

the building was not on fire

but a drug addict burn the cable he took from the building (in picture billow is the wire that still warm and red in color) and yes he burns it inside the building
We didn't see that one coming. I called for police. but one old neighbour come to the crime scene (Jahat nya aku thinks he actually protecting the suspect). me and my mum just came in the place quietly so he didn't ran away this pakcik start questioning. the police arrive. he ran i ran after him and he lost. the neighbour outside the fence just look thou i shout to block the suspect (What a typical Malaysian- yup there an accident why don't we slow down and look at it.. no we should not help)....aku perempuan ok i chase the fella you are a bunch of 30 guys(men but not gentleman) in front of the crime scene help to blocklah but no... and thanks for that the suspect just run away since i stuck when trying to follow his path through the fence he cut.....

only than 3 large fire truck arrive (Thanks Encik bomba ye ramai)
and police follow me around the area

and the IO arrived (Investigation officer)... i show them the last place i saw the suspect at... an the tools he leftafter the fire department confirm the area for fire. the police block all road around and suddenly IO's without uniform coming in from no where.... and i followed them around all possible place for his hide out. and talk with the IO until the sun just suddenly set. the IO back to their base (which i still confuse where they park their vehicle)

kejap kejap off track story: Tuan datang dari mana? jawapan .... Magik.....

and went to the police station for reporting the event


after a long 2 times report.... i followed the sergeant major and the inspector back to the crime scene. they pick up the tools back to the office
and the things the suspect burn

plus calculating the damage to the building, the things that teh suspect take -such as TV lah, decoration brass lah.... the IO believe it is from the same person in that week since he even bring his own ladder to do the job. and My mum arrived home after went out with friend who support her shock. i finish the report only at 23.oo. its tiring... and exciting thou :) i always wanted to join a force... but hey i experience new things and better things that day... wohooooo


Disclaimer: a lot of things happen.. even there is some claimed educated person who ugut my parents.... after my dad pass away they keep coming..... without respect to the old people... my dad should break our ties... even the pass away Dato's with their grandsons plus 3 times cousin should start learn and be ashamed of their act... thou this even might not have anything to do with them.... even i never claim anything that my dad has been working on.... you guys yang never hands on tak malu ke? ...... Atuk nenek defence for our Independent and gathered fund to help our people. you guys finish your ancestor estate... now you hunting on Rakyats..... pelik manusia ni.... kerja tempat bagus bagus, nak kata mix blood with PHD people but not at all, tapi buta hati......

Congratsssss Ayu


Congtratssss to ayu she is now official upgraded from Ms to Mrs hahaha... so sorry i can't stay long and don't even had anything at her wedding... but yeah i went to 2 other weddings and can't do much kecuali datang with pressie and in messy looks.... congrats may you live happily ever after :P

Disclaimer:
Congrats to fara too... she is now officially kena chop dengan org :P

Friday, October 02, 2009

Birthday with colleague

A surprise birthday event from my colleague in SMC,FTMM... Awwwww many thanks... kesian they had to lie, deceive me, dump and other sort of stuff.... cian beli pressie jauh jauh :P thanks...

The Birthday Cake



Birthday Girlz yang kuat makan sangat
Birthday Posing



With pressie from them
Kena pinjam
Disclaimer thank you girlzzzzz for the cake card and pressieeee and lotsa love.... somehow the event remind me of ul, jay and cykin
thanks thanks thanks may Allah bless all of you
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And that same day my 2nd brother went out with me.... with some limit set we went for my toileteries shopping... as my birthday pressie... happy jimat banyak this month ... nice sandal ek.... cost us only 3ringgit, the first things i want... slipar jepon.... and bought 2 haha :P... Thanks abang Sal... Mr Fazio


he so thirsty and we stop by a coffee shop and we end up having Dagan..... complain aje... mana nak sama dengan Starbucks and unfiltered coffee in Palm Terrace apalah :P


My condition now : Still recovering... huhu

p.s ada org nak bagi pressie lagi ke nak ni boleh?

Seperti Tidak bekerja

Untuk Maklumat atas kemarahan saya khas untuk Telekom Malaysia...

uih marah betul.... i think it is so stupid to do that for troubleshooting... had the same thing for 3 times and this time memang marah betul... i went through the same F***ing things for 3 times and at the end the way they handle it macam tu juga.... waste of time and 100X bullsh**z dah lah even complain form is not working buduh punyanya tmnet. I tot Customer service careline people went thru training first... lastly baru nak cakap em telefon malam jelah... was like what? buduh buduh buduh....